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Why we’re writing this

We are two people sharing one life. One of us lives with a disability, the other does not. This is where we write about how we try to build a life without limits, day to day.

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Why we started writing

We could not find enough honest, everyday accounts of what it is like to build a relationship and a life with a disability in the picture, written by the two people actually living it. So we decided to write our own.

We share the practical things we have figured out, the things that did not work, and the ordinary parts of daily life that rarely get talked about. Not to give advice from a place of authority, but because we wish someone had shared this with us earlier.

Who’s writing here

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Dennis

Shares his side of the story: what it’s like to live alongside and support a partner.

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Bregje

Shares her side of the story: daily life with a disability.

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